Thoughts that trigger

From, Present Swarna Rekha To Future Dr. Swarna Rekha Dearest Future, Subject : Passions and goals to be accomplished                        This is your past friend, writing you from present to see you in future, many many dreams with a note of hopefulness and goals that are still to achieve and I write this to see my own self in next five years, hearts with expectations and minds with task to Full fill my expectations, never gave up on my passion and my one and only dream of becoming a teacher and give my students not only value education but to make them best human beings to the world. So, dear future be more than what I imagined and never disappoint me and I promise not to disappoint you and work with a lot of passion and hardwork to bring my dreams to life, I promise not to get distracted or deviate from my goals and struggle hard to become the girl I wish. Being a girl who is naïve and unclear on her surroun...

Graduation day, the most memorable day of my life, lots of learning and lots of experience, memories beyond moments and now with happy hearts we all chose to fly far and enjoy our next stage of flying, the day beginned with alot of excitement but the end brought alot of reality. The graduation started around 2.30 and we were all in college even before the graduation program started and we really talked to eachother and enjoyed our little moments of our life which gave us moments to recollect. The reality of people and what position do we own in their life and everything was clearly understood and people who really cared and treated me as their priority stayed with me and I am very grateful to them and most importantly I was not only completed my degree as student but learnt lesson as a human being.  I wanted you to know two things about life through my experience of my first degree, the first thing is life is not same for everyone, each of them has their own stories to tell and eac...

Mishti Doi, the new dessert that I tried after a conversation with Rufus sir about this particular dessert, he told me about it's flavour the way it taste and I just want to give it a try, seriously it's so tasty and delicious and the people who love curd can try this because it's a dessert made out of curd and I personally loved the taste so much and I want you to atleast give it a try,  the dessert is a combination of curd, caramel, milk peda and it's so tasty that I wanted to get one more to eat and I guess curd hater cannot try because it has a curd smell and flavour of curd but you can also give it a try if you like caramel flavour. I really felt so tempted by the way sir and our junior girl explained the taste of the mishti doi and wanted atleast to try it once but had to wait for few weeks because I had my exams then I tried it today and mishti doi felt heaven to me and I hope you can also give it a try and I am sure you like it.  Mishti Doi can be ma...

Emptiness into Fulfillment  In darkest room without a light A soul that just starves so much The untold battles inside the mind The epic of stories yet to describe  The search of a shoulder to cry The wet cold hands which shivered  But control the unexpressed emotions Believing it would change in seconds Trusting the process of healing  She holds her breathe on nights  And the pillow which holds her tears People call her Clingy and sensitive  But she hides everything behind  Her beautiful smile which shines  She was there for everyone  Waiting for no one who is yet to come  But now she decided to focus on goals  she is now away from emotions  The soul recovered herself from everything  The silent battles turned to her strength  The tears are now wiped by happiness  The goal gave its hands to achieve  More and more focus on yourself  Is the best to achieve yourself  The emptiness turned to Fulfilli...

Joy and Pleasure, I chose this topic today because in my whole life whatever I thought is joy is not actually joy but pleasure, this made me to write this poem and this thought is from the essay of Joy by Zadie Smith. Joy lives, Pleasure stays, Joy is something long-lasting, Pleasure is momentary, Joy is struggling and painful, Pleasure is easier and timely, I said eating ice-cream is joy, And they called it pleasure, I said having a day with your loved one is joy, And again they said it pleasure, I said buying something out of my salary is joy, And without any confusions they said it's pleasure, I asked them what is joy, They said,  Joy is not jumping in happiness, Joy is living with pain, struggles and happiness, Joy is having to work with a smile on hard days, Joy is learning to feel that it's okay to let go, Joy is having the guts to face anything and everything, Joy is making you smile when you don't want to, Joy going anywhere and learning to survive, Joy is helping s...

Wow, that's was the best day ever, we didn't just create memories but a wholesome happiness that would stay even with us even after a physical distance, we not only enjoyed the day but made each of us to feel away from all our exam stress, though we all are in our exam days, literally the day gave us positivity, energy and definitely moments to cherish forever. The well spent day had alot of story to tell, I just want you to know what are those things that made me happy yesterday. The first incident was playing UNO, where we had a great fun, we made few changes in rules of the game that is we said people who have power cards as their last card should either drop the card if there is another card which is also a power that is dropped by the person who played before them orelse they should pick a card and continue playing, I hope you understand and people who got their last card as power card actually hard the tough game I would say, then people who lose the game should have to a...

Mid Night Cravings, this concept today is something more subjective because this was something that happened yesterday night. I hope all have experienced this thing in your life too.  Let me tell you what happened yesterday, our parents asked us to eat before going to sleep but we felt it's good to skip because we had heavy snacks in the evening, then all went to sleep it was nearly 11 o'clock and my brother woke up and asked me whether I am hungry and I was also about to wake him and ask him whether he was hungry, so now we both are hungry and both of us wanted to eat something but we didn't have anything to make it instantly and planned to eat something healthy because we searched for noodles it was not there, no snacks box concept in my home because we are healthy kids, finally we saw the health mix powder that my mom prepared in home, now only choice we had was to prepare something out of the powder and drink it, so we added the powder to water then switched on the stov...

Be a listener than a speaker because when you start to listen, you not only learn a skill but you gain respect about others feelings, in the world of busy schedules if we are able to listen to people on their daily updates, their feelings, untold worries then you have all qualities of being a listener. Listening is a skill and to develop it you need to have patience with people. Whenever you speak something make sure you listen to what is asked and then answer the question, if you do this then your are a perfect listener because you are able to answer perfectly and on point to the questions asked.  Listening can enrich your knowledge about life, academics, philosophy and many other factors, where you will find a learner in you is growing up. Listening is more wanted for many people in this world, we all want someone to hear to our worries, our stressful thoughts and listening to people will actually give them a person who can just heal them by listening to what they are going throu...

Imitation, this topic was a part of our literary criticism paper and I really enjoyed learning this concept because it made me find how we live our life just by imitation of others. We all call our life to be unique but we all one or otherway we have someone's reflection in us that is what made me think so much today. We all have been the victim of imitation, the first time that we started to imitate is being a kid we speak by imitation of words from our parents then we learnt to walk by seeing someone who walked, we learn to swim because we saw someone swimming, we learn to listen because we saw someone listening to us while we are speaking, we learnt drive because we saw someone driving and wanted to learn the same, we got a skill of reading because we saw someone reading, we got to write because we saw someone writings, likewise everything we do was done by someone or someone told us to do so, in fact everything we practice today was taught by someone so whole life is an imitati...

The Art of missing  Thoughts of people are always treasured, They make us recollect them quite often, Silenced but their thoughts I stood by, Making pictures with their memories, Missing them though they are away, Feeling like something is missed out, Everytime Everything reminds them, Call me fool I never care, But stuck not with the person but life, Missing those moments of togetherness, Bond that is beyond love, Mesmerizing by just the truth of missing, Wanting to go back and get them with me, Silencing my emotions I stood back, Thinking that one day they will come back, I will hold them tight, Never leave them, Missing is an art, And I have been a artist for so long, The songs that played in me reminds them, Probably the person is soon coming back, To rebond and forever to stay, Missing their presence, Wanting to hold on to cherished dream, Waiting patiently to end the missing, But when you have the right one, Missing is a blessing, Waiting is worthy, Will surely one day stop m...

Independent, this is a very strong word because many of us talk of being independent and we always wanted to stay independent in our life but we also wants someone for few aspects, it can be emotional support, guidance and so on. Being independent is not very easy and complete independence is not possible too. When we want independence of our life then there should be no dependency at all and that's highly impossible in our life because everyone is dependent on someone or other for their life. Independent is something where you can earn, stand on your own leg, going alone to places by yourself, spending your own money to buy things that you need, chilling out with your life by staying alone, making decisions alone, and few more is what we consider is being independent but all of this requires a dependency too, for example, let's take your earnings salary from a company and they give you money ultimately your are dependent on the work to gain money right, so now it's depende...

Never replace instead repair, this topic is in context to human connection not things. We all should learn to find solution to solve and rebond to the person instead of replacing them with an other person is the context today. What will be the consequences of replacing and how effective is to repair and reunite is what makes this chapter interesting. Replacing is easy and effortless but repair takes time and also require good efforts, we all find it difficult to fix things and make it even more beautiful but we find something new which doesn't have any connection to us.  What will be the consequences of replacing?? We all might find a person who can emotional support us or act like supporting us but we don't know their intentions of their support, I don't say everyone whom you replace are bad intentioned but replacing a person who doesn't know anything about you but the person just can be a support to your hard days and sometimes you will even face people who can use yo...

Habits that brings change to life and those habits will help you to stay healthy, calm, energetic and also make the better version of your which you have never thought. This will bring a wide change in your life and also help you build better each day and grow both personally and professionally. The first and foremost is to wake up early in the morning, when I say this you would have thought me as a boomer but it's okay because I too felt the same when I heard it for the first time from my parents but now waking up early gave me energy that brings change to my daily routine, when you wake up in the morning and see the sun rise you will feel a good positive start to the day. The sun seems to feel like someone is boosting energy to survive the whole day. So try to wake up early in the morning and see the change by yourself. The next habit to include is that meditation which will calm your mind and soul, helps in fresh start to the morning and help you stay away from stress, anger and...

Taste your words before you spill them out because when you once utter a word to someone and that cannot be taken back, words can be hurtful and your words can repeat in someone's brain for several times, all these quotes are heard but never practiced, I wish that people could practice this so that no one will face any sort of depression in their life.  Why words hurt people so much because a word can be just a word till the moment it's in your brain but the moment you say it then it's a confession of your emotions, learn to think twice before you speak or confession something to someone because your words can create stress, hurt and lead to depression which will create a gap between you the person. Learn to speak of kindness and the way you speak should be a healing to someone and never push them to stress. And I have seen people who speak kind to the unkind ones which made me learn their kindness and I genuinely felt it's good to speak of goodness so that we are no lo...

Attachment is not a joke, we all have faced this in our life and many of us are the victims of this silent pain, everytime you attach to someone you either get hurt or played or misused. But I don't mean all attachments but a few attachments that break us, attachment is not a joke because we don't know how people are connected to us, the connection is not always about how you feel so, it's too depth sometimes and you never have idea about how your absence can make them feel low about themselves, be kind to people who are attached to you and always to people who need your presence in their life, I really don't understand why people suddenly change and also hurt the feelings of other person so easily and when they even make a mistake, try to correct them and leaving is never a option, I have seen many people who can't communicate and solve the problem instead they choose to leave, I don't know how people can leave someone and lead a life without them after all tho...

Who am I without this worldly things ?? I would say that you will meet a new version of yourself when you are away from worldly things, worldly happiness, worldly pleasure, world and it's conditional life is more like adaptation of your true self to something that requires few changes and few hidden things, so that the world see you as a person of the world orelse you will be a species from an other world,  I would say being you in this world is impossible because the moment you live the way you want then people keep unnecessary judgements and also they make you feel something inappropriate  about yourself later you yourself wanted to change and adapt to the world and it's conditions. Today we find people protesting for something that is a basic need and also we find people craving for happiness in their life is all because they have lost their identity in choosing what the world wants. ( World here is personified, not the actual world but people who created rules and regulati...

Just go with the flow, we all heard this phrase quite many times of our life and I do trust this to certain level and I also believe in planning and proceeding things, the ideology of going with flow is 50 percent possible but some moves requires efforts and planning which will open better doors for your future and success too. The moment I say this point, I wish to quote a example, a person who wants to achieve something in his/ her life is planning something to happen and that goes wrong so immediately they choose to go with the flow but that is a wrong decision I would say because the moment you choose something important to your life then it's never going with the flow instead it requires good planning and followed by efforts that makes your success sound better than you wished for, now the person wants something from their loved ones and they don't give what this person wants then of course you can follow this going with the flow, even at this point you can explain your lo...

Boundaries are more important in life and without them it's full of disappointing situations and boundaries will help you not get hurt and allow you to feel who you are with your life and that matters much. Learning to set boundaries for people around you is very needed skill or quality, I would say. We all have learnt to set boundaries in our life after a lesson that is thought by our most trusted person. Have you ever felt so unwanted in someone's life after making your best efforts in order to make them smile then what is the point in being close to someone, I hope everyone have faced this in your life, I guess. This is just a timely feeling and after a few months you will get quite normal of it, so stop worrying and start setting boundaries to avoid those trauma again.  I have few tips to build boundaries that will stop you from hurtful situation and also help you to invest better in yourself. First set emotional boundaries when I say this idea it might sound different but ...

Dreams are fantasy they said and I said it's my real space in this illusionary world, dreams are not just fantasy or things that you feel it won't happen in real sense, they can and I experienced it in my life. Dreams can come in your sleep of every night and also there are day dreamers too. Dream in sleep can be fantasy but I have heard of people saying the dream of the early morning will turn into to reality. "Dream is not just what you see in sleep but something that doesn't allow you to sleep" - APJ Abdul Kalam, this is what I mean by my dream that are real in the illusionary world. This is not a personal narrative, yet has a alot experience of a person. The dream of becoming a girl who is constraint with the societal norms was the first dream of every women, a girl who never ask permission and are free to do what she loves and owning her wings without restriction. Smiling aloud with her life is all she need, she never want someone to guide about what she know...

Questions that are not answered, how many of us have questions which has no answer to it and why we never wanted to find those answers but we think of them quite often and tell ourselves that is okay not know the answers for those questions. Do you think questions are better when they are not answered or you felt the answer will hurt you or you already knew the answer but you cannot openly confess the answer, what is your take on it. I have seen people zoning out quite often and the moment I asked them, what happened ?, they immediately say nothing or just thinking, so you are thinking of something or your questioning your inner self about your thoughts and you answer it then immediately strike it off and say maybe I answered it wrong, you know your inner self has a good intuition always so listen to your logical mind and not to your emotional heart to know the answers and answer those questions that needs an answer. Questions that usually people have in their mind and search for answe...

Time, humans are slave of time, the owner, time rules us throughout our life, from the moment your born to the moment you die, we all have to go as per the time and we all have heard of this phrase " Time and Tide waits for none " meaning time doesn't wait for anyone it goes on without turning back for any cause and life obeys to time always and we all find our education,  profession, events, deadlines everything revolves around time and the only thing that can never be changed or brought back is time.  Time will make us learn how to be punctual and regular in our everything we do, let's take,  if your going to work in a company or any platform, they have specific time to check in and check out and it's compulsory to follow, to be punctual in your work and the timing are so accurate in the sense that 9am is 9am and 9.5 is not 9am so we all should know even a minute change shows your inconsistency in your punctuality and to maintain punctuality you should learn to ...

Suicide is not a solution to any problem of your life and we all have different problems in our life, problems might take time to get sloved but no problem is permanent to us, so understanding life with its struggles, obstacles, problems, stress, etc is important and to achieve a happy life all you need is to live life the way it is and to be happy with whatever life gives us whether it is a good or bad everything is a lesson to learn and remember you have not walked the moment you were born, you crawled, you slipped, but managed to walk again, so to life your a kid who is crawling and one day you will walk for sure. Life has problem to deal but suicide is not a solution to your problem, your strength of living is the actual goal of life. What are the steps to avoid suicidal thoughts ? The steps that should be taken to avoid such thoughts is that, the first and the foremost to know that you have courage to handle any problem and you can slove any problem, with that positive mindset you...

Women, the most beautiful part of human world who had brought all of us to this earth and today we find the same women is being misused, mistreated and called as being emotionally imbalanced, weak and sensitive. I don't understand why people always complain a women for anything and everything. Women are people who also have a equal space in this world and without them I feel the world is useless. We all speak of great women in our life and call them successfully women where we fail to make our women in the house to reach the same place like them. We restrict them, cut off the beautiful wings and even stop their education to make them married.  Women are warrior of life to me because, from the moment of creation till date they are protesting for their freedom that they still didn't achieve fully and when they give freedom to a women it's celebrated like as if they have did something extraordinary but actually, men have to feel guilty that you have ruled someones life and als...

A beautiful phrase that made me to write what it means and to also give few aspects of how writing is art and it's also a reflection of one's thoughts born as words by the writers, also how writing is a therapy to many and how writing can develop a change. Today I had a appointment with my professor, Rufus sir who guided me to start a blog and only because of him, I am able to find the ideas of writing and how writing can develop our knowledge to other level. He gave me alot of information today but few ideas literally stuck in my mind and I can't get over it.  Write what exist already, but that people don't know, this statement means that write what is present in your heart, something around you, social issues, what you see and what you understand, what you hear or what someone tell you something and all these are know to you and make people know something that exist already but they failed to see that and you did it and made others to also see or think and learn the ...

The question that had been long in my brain but today's lecture in the last hour is what made me put down my words and try to make people understand that the fault is not about her and it's about the society which normalise the concept for a boy and when it comes to a girl they question and even make statement that kill their heart. I just wanted to question the society on this particular thing that is why do you feel that men has no mistake in them and you never ask them about their mistakes and you keep questioning or judging a women without even knowing about what had happened to her. Please understand the story of both the ends and decide who is right and who is wrong because all people have their own life so never make assumptions instead try to understand the situation of each person before you blame the women without proper evidence.  Divorce at a general sense is an agreement were each of them decide that being together will create unhealthy relationship and also will l...

Flowers are personified, today the blog is going to make you understand how flowers can represent life.  Now let's take the a ground which is owned by man named God, he had one large ground, he saw the ground was completely filled with grass and it was green everywhere and he taught it's was so plain and there was nothing to admire, so he wanted to have one flower of red colour which he named it as rose and he gave the quality of beauty and love to it and after a few days, he found the rose was very dull and he asked the rose what it wants to feel bright, later the rose answered that it need a companion to live and God created a other flowers named sunflower which brought sunshine and care to the rose and they lived happily and after a few weeks they said god that they feel so bored being with each other and they want some more people to join them , so God created an other flower called daffodils - happiness, and still they wanted more and God planned to put more fl...

The best way to slove a problem is to communicate about the problem and what are steps can be taken to resolve the issue by communicating and addressing the issue clearly and kindly. Argument on other hand is full of troubles and unwanted feeling that make one to feel bad about yourself and also it's more like a situation where one could never express their opinion. The best is to communicate and be the listener when someone communicates and never argue while you want the problem to resolve, just keep your points and allow them to speak up their points openly and they should never feel judged at any cost while they speak up on their problem and also learn to listen and then speak, which will help you to be away from miscommunication and misunderstanding. How arguments can be avoided during a problem ?  This so simple if you are ready to listen to the other person on why they did that particular thing, what made them do the thing, who was the reason for them to act in that way, how ...

Love, the most beautiful feeling that everyone can give and feel in our life, love is eternal, love has no conditions, love is divine, love is journey, love is entity, love is excitement, love is everything that we can feel and say. Love doesn't require any specific requirement it's always unconditional, supportive and never expressed in words, love has various forms and various stages too and this word is not just a word but something more than a word which brings happiness and joy to our life. Love of a mother is the purest form of love that is selfless and everlasting, mother is the most gentle being who only gives and never wants anything for us, her love for her children is unexplainable which gives us the energy to do anything in this world and we might feel that our mom does not understand anything about our secrets but our mother understands everything but she silently guide us by knowing what's happening in our life and the only person whom we can share all our sec...

Innocence, this word means being the most purest person with a lack of negative emotions and people who are having the quality of innocence are often considered to be kind and humble soul who always stand for love and generosity. Innocence is seen as the most needed quality in many to avoid greed, unhealthy emotions and also to stay away from negativity and being innocent on other hand makes people to get fooled easily and they are easily manipulate by others and being innocent and clever is sometimes a challenge and many innocent people fail to identify who is good ? and who acts good ?. Let's understand that innocence leads to many struggles but always remember innocent people are loved by the right ones and I trust God will love them too.  Innocence, I see this word in context of mothers who are always have their for their kid and they trust everyone so easily and also they like people who just give them one percent of care, mom's are pure being in the world who treats not o...

Stay Strong, don't break - how many of us heard this phrase in our life ?? If you were one who have heard this phrase I hope you will not just read it as blog but it can make you to revisit the moments of life on how strong your and how well you handled all your situations. What do you think of being strong ? Is it being strong in your thoughts, beliefs and your decisions and having a good emotional strength, yes ur right but we all forget this one thing that is having to break out your emotions at a personal space to have strength to stay strong at public which is also a sign of being strong. We all have heard and saw women or men who were strong in their life and that does mean that they were born a warrior, it's about how situation have made them to realise about their strength and ofcourse they were also once a person who was broken and they were once a person with emotional instability and people with alot hidden sorrows but now they are said strong because they fought aga...

Most awaited day, guess what ??  Yes it's the new year and yeah we have an other year to grow better in our life and walk the way better than the year that had ended, moments to memories now and I can't still believe that one year is completed and I am on the next year now, I hope this year will also bring me alot of learning to life and make me even more happy and stronger than the last year. This new year I will not repeat any of my mistakes of 2025 and continue to be the girl who have built her own monument in her life to live and enjoy her life the way she dreams.  Learning of the year, many lessons learnt in this year but close to my heart, i learnt how to overcome things by self healing and self motivation because this year had all test and trails which made me the strongest version mine and I had to overcome many obstacles which were actually a stepping stone than calling it an obstacle, the year taught me silence, patience, peace, to handle life with a smile on your fa...