Women

Women, the most beautiful part of human world who had brought all of us to this earth and today we find the same women is being misused, mistreated and called as being emotionally imbalanced, weak and sensitive. I don't understand why people always complain a women for anything and everything. Women are people who also have a equal space in this world and without them I feel the world is useless. We all speak of great women in our life and call them successfully women where we fail to make our women in the house to reach the same place like them. We restrict them, cut off the beautiful wings and even stop their education to make them married. 

Women are warrior of life to me because, from the moment of creation till date they are protesting for their freedom that they still didn't achieve fully and when they give freedom to a women it's celebrated like as if they have did something extraordinary but actually, men have to feel guilty that you have ruled someones life and also stopped them from living it. I don't understand why freedom becomes conditional for women and unconditional for men, actually freedom is not a gender based concept as I mentioned in my last blog. Learn that your freedom is your, women freedom is theirs.

Women face alot of trauma, domestic violence, gender inequality, postpartum trauma, society judgement, lack of freedom and lost their own identity. Domestic violence, women are brutally raped, verbally abused by the society and still society wants to find fault about her dress, her character and problem is only with her is what they think and it's absolutely nonsense, I would say. Gender inequality, each and everywhere there is gender inequality and women have to adjust and still grow as per the rules set by the society, her own home make her feel weak about herself and they always restrict her and never taught her to face a problem but to run away from problem is what is taught in society and in home. Postpartum pain and the situation a women undergoes in her life and she craves for more care, love and affection at that moment from her family members but most of them do not get what they want. Lost their own identity because we find men being behind all her decision, she was never given a chance to choose her choice but she is given options where her choice is not present in the options, so she choose what she doesn't want to and that make her lose herself and lose her identity in choosing the options of others.

Women out there remember this dialogue from 36 vayathinilae, where Jothika utters in this dialogue " Never be the answers to questions of the society instead be the question that the society cannot attempt to answer." So try to question when you feel you don't feel okay their rules and regulations and always be ready to chase your dreams and live your life the way you wish to and not what society needs, follow your dreams and keep going. 

Women, I have a poem for you which will make you to break your walls that are built around you. Break it and go for your dreams.

STAND UP WOMEN

This poem is for the most gorgeous women over there to wake up and stand up for themselves.

Hey, you are stunning, 

You are tough enough, 

You are earnest of all,

You are gifted, 

You are compassionate,

You are confident.

You are adorable, 

But the society is what changes you,

They say you are a nonentity.

And cut off your extensions, 

That is earnest of soaring, 

Stand up and arise like a sun,

And never set until and unless 

Everything is set perfectly. 

Build you in the way you want,

Not how the society wants,

Evoke your well-intentioned of all,

Never feel regret to say no,

When you shadow your approach,

You are always breathing your existence,

Those shaped in your daydreams,

It's about you only you,

Never them, I mean the society.

Dear women, stand up. Stand up for your rights.