Thoughts that trigger

Mental health, the most required factor of today generation. We find people having alot mental health issues which results in losing their ability to think and make decisions in their life and also they tend to be away from people and this makes one feel uncomfortable and also experience insecurities, lack of emotional stability, highly sensitive, they go into trauma, stress and depression.  Today society where young generation go through alot of unsaid feelings and thoughts, the most important thing is that they hide their problems, thoughts and feelings even to their parents, they don't trust and isolating them  from the real world is what they feel is their own solution to their problems. There are solutions to bring them from this and give them good healthy environment and a good mental health. The first and foremost step is to allow them to express their feelings openly and never using those confession during an argument is also important, by this we know their pain point...

This Club, Crescent Club of Finance was our second home, this blog is so close to me but if you read this you will be longing to be one among them, let me make it poetic. Admist all those academic life, The moments that made us feel stressless, The bonding of faithfully human souls, The day I started as the JD of Public Relations, Everything is just a dream now, But then we were a family, Each soul had their own stories to tell, Making each one to forget their worries, Discussion wasn't professional at all, All those personal stories, We didn't plan for anything special, Because everything was already special, We laughed still our stomach ached, We had whole lot of works, But nothing felt heavy, People who make those mokka jokes, Still we laughed, We had singers who entertained us, We had  people with high talents, With the talent of being a standup comedians, stress busters, Days that never felt boring, In fact time is so fast, Wanted just those days ba...

We live in a society where we prioritise money over people and there is always a distance between people who are rich and who wish to be rich, I don't think money can make you rich but your rich qualities will make you a rich person. People who once told me that people are more important than money and now they talk of money is the most important thing which will make you rich and feel valued in the society, I have a question for the ones who have this mindset in you, we all say we are living for ourselves and should never think of others opinion but why don't you feel the same for this also, value people and their love for you, also learn to value human emotions over money, money can never bring happiness but people will surely. Let's get back to the place where we find joy in those little moments where pockets were empty but heart filled with lovely memories, money is just necessary for our needs but people are essential to build an healthy and an harmonious life. Let...

Kintsugi, is the old japanese art, that remakes the art out of the broken things, they don't stick it with glue or gum but they use gold, silver or platinum power mixed with lacquer where they tend to highlight the broken parts and show it as broken things but they seem to show it as the art at the same time which make us realise that we has human tend to hide our flaws by making up stories or even justifying our mistakes but we forget that the mistakes we make are what making us to shape even better, the art teaches us the importance of how mistakes can turn to highlight your character development and never try to justify instead remake by learning from your mistake. We can also say finding beauty in your flaws, where we feel so insecured about our appearance, let's still find the beauty behind our flaws, no man is perfect, every man has their own flaw and imperfections make it even more beautiful, let's learn from Japanese art form to be human art with flaws that makes us...

We all usually have this craze towards photography and this interest is what makes us see through the lens of the camera and not the reality, we tend to post stories, status of our memories which are a wholesome of happiness that is made possible by photography, the moment reality feels heavy we tend to look back and watch the memories of us which we cherish to escape from reality, the moment we feel so lively while seeing the pics that we took earlier which make us to feel much better than what we are going through in our life. Do we all know the person behind this treasured moments, a person who records all our events without we asking for it, the person who save our months of happiness just by photos, yes the photographer, the person behind our joyous moments, who made us to recollect what we cherished once. I take this moment to appreciate the people of photography who not just took pics but pictured our moments and saved them as the symbol of memorable moments. Let's see life ...

Judgements on women, the unexplained pain that a women undergo in their life. I don't understand how someone can simply utter random statements that actually has no sense to it, I felt this so deeply. I really want to ask people why they are so judgemental in nature. how they can judge their own fellow humans.  This incident of judgement happened when I was crossing the road near our college, I saw two girls walking next to me and I saw two aunties who were walking behind them and they told this particular line that literally broke my heart, "look at  the girls of this generation who wants to attract men wearing such dresses to show off their beauty", I really don't understand why people mindset is so dumb that they speak as they like, and no women is wearing the dress to attract a men, it's her wish to wear what she wants.  Today we have this mindset that modern dress is something that is increasing the rate of rape cases but we don't understand the concept t...

Why war? Why not peace? War the most powerful killer, Peace the most powerful calmer, War kills people and their dreams, Peace bring lively happiness to life, War had destroyed the most adored smile, Peace brought in back the smile, War made people to face crisis, Peace brought countess joy, War the most terrible force, Peace that resonates love, War had brought a alot changes, It killed people who wished to live, It made someone joy to end, It destroyed someone's dream house, Someone's dream life, Someone's happy space, Someone's long-lasting love, Someone's beautiful moments, War took away everything that is them, Wonderful memories turned to heartfelt sorrows, Why war ? Why not peace? The broken heart request to stop the war, Stop please stop all your meaningless fight, Let people live their life in calmness, Let people live their loved ones, Let kids laugh and play, Let us know that humanity is expensive, Will behave humans in this world, No jeously, no fights, ...

That random call which I received today from one of closest friend that made my day, we all have such people in our life who call us randomly and ask if we are okay?, have you guys received such calls, and one among was today's call, this call gave me energy to extend my preparation for tommorow's exam and I was totally low from the evening because I was on my periods and yeah I had the worstu painful day today, the moment I attended this call, my friend hyped me in all ways, and said you can do your exam well and your stronger than you think which actually made my day to begin with positivity again, this call was not those calls that I received everyday but a call that brought back energy in me and a virtual motivation that made me to start my preparation for tommorow's exam, the moment I received this call all my pains vanished, now starting my preparation and also I know this blog is just a piece of my personal experience but if you have someone who calls you when you ar...

Bare minimum vs Princess Treatment, I have few things under each of this side topic and if you feel the same do comment or you can even oppose of you feel it's not.  Bare minimum  1. Making a cup of coffee while getting back home. 2. Respecting eachothers opinions 3. Never stops caring even when your angry. 4. Being emotionally connected  5. Understands without words 6. Walking with eachother atleast a week  7. Sharing each other's stress and consoling eachother  8. Being there during hard times  9. Taking care when sick  10. Honesty and Loyalty that stays always  11. Respecting boundaries  12. Completes the fight through communication, no prolong fights. Never leaving your partner to sleep with heavy heart  13. Never fight in public. 14. Being completely you  15. Enjoying little moments together 16. Happiness in togetherness. Princess Treatment  1. Holding handbags 2. Touching the feet in the public  3. Cooking everyday w...

Reassurance, the most important part in every relationship that enhance the quality of any relationship, the moment you are born you need someone to assure you that they will be next to you. Have you seen a child crying all the time because it feels unsafe with the environment that is new but it feels secure when it is close to their mom which shows the safety and the assurance that they gain from their mother which make them to lose all the insecurities of the surroundings, the same applies at every stage of our life, the moment we start going to school we again cry because it's a new environment again but with reassurance of the teacher saying that they will make us feel secured then that fear is also taken and the moment you love someone after your parents automatically we feel so insecured about losing them and we tend to ask them for reassurance and that might not be possible most of the time but remember when someone ask you for reassurance give them because that will make th...

Being emotional is not weak, we all think showing our emotions is something weak and we tend to hide our feelings which make us to suppress our emotions in ourselves. This will lead you to face alot of issues in your our life, being sensitive is actually good because you will never hurt others feeling because you know how it would create hurt in their heart, which shows your act of kindness, the moment we tend to see emotions as strength we build emotional intelligence, today we find alot people who doesn't know how to care, how to console, how to convince and also we are becoming emotionally unavailable at times which creates a greater impact in our life and in other sense it distance people who are close to us and also we distance people and we stay away from our closed ones, the moment we get emotional connected with people we avoid stress and also we learn how to forgive and forget, learn from our mistakes, our whole life is made up of emotions and that defines our life complet...

Addicted to the skill, Where letter make words, Words make sentences, Sentences that makes paragraph, Paragraph that makes chapters, Chapters that makes books, Rhyming words that makes poetry, Lines that makes melodies, Thoughts that turn to quotes, Confession's that turns to diary writing, Untold feelings turn to blogging, Professional ideas that turn to Articles, Research that creates change to society, Art that can drive people to world of words, The therapy to stressed souls, The therapist of the real world, People created their identity, Being a student to an author, Poet, essayist, scholar. Roles are built, By just this skill, The skill that everyone can afford, The skill that made me addict, The skill of writing, The skill that I talked about, Writing is something so beautiful, Writing is progressing happiness, Start writing to experience, The joy of writing, My recent addiction is writting, That shaped me in many ways, Writing is the most powerful therapy ever, Start writin...

Home and House has a big difference between them and we all feel the place we stay after our regular duty is home but we don't understand it's house not a home. House becomes home when we feel stressless, completely safe, secured, happy and a loving environment is home and house is just a building that we stay,  which is made of bricks and few people who stay just for staying without any affection. Situation today where we find mostly a house and not home, people who get a home in this generation, remember your damn lucky and today everyone are so busy enough to run behind luxury, status, position, power and something of materialistic property, today I felt writing this because as children we were so happy being in home and now we don't feel the same, at times, yes it's home but most of the times, it's just a house and I felt it yesterday so much, we all find parents who think they hold everything of children and control or suppress their feelings as if they own the...

Today lecture literally changed my entire idea of teaching and it made me think teaching can more innovative and creative, the idea of my professor bring the most important theories just by a Kerchief made us to learn the key concepts easily and it went straight into our heart. Let me articulate the same ideas and this will help you to understand the concepts at a better sense. He beginned it with the Kerchief and he told us Kerchief is just used as the symbol of hygiene, and it's only purpose is just to wipe the sweat and that is the only purpose of the hand Kerchief. Then he said that the Kerchief questions itself why I am just doing the same thing, why not I differ from the regular purpose and bringout something unique had brought the understanding of self which is self- realisation.  Then he told of Naturalism, the one kerchief is dry and the other kerchief is  made wet, so one kerchief feel so annoyed because the other is different from it which makes it to denote the Nat...

Observing is the best quality, we all must listen to people while they speak and also the ability to observe people who is taking to you, beyond the words observe the actions, their mood while talking, their intentions. Our professor gave us this advice to us because it's an important quality to analyse a person who communicate to us. The three qualities to include while you observe are expression, voice and gesture.  Expression: How well they expression, whether they are open out their thoughts or hiding something behind, and how well they are able to speak up is what expression is all about. Voice: Voice, which is how they speak?, Are they nervous?, and tone on which they speak also matters. Analyse this factor of observation which will help you communicate better by knowing their side. Gesture: Gesture is also an important quality because the gesture of a person shows us how confident they are, how well they express their thoughts and through gesture you can understand the inten...

Can I call this love ?, The person who made you feel better, The person who stood by in the storms, The first person to check on my silence, The chapter of happy moments, Besides all those intolerant life, The shadow that stood by me, The non-judgmental soul, Often encouraged me, Made me smile when I don't wish to, The one who holded me tight, And said your doing your best, Despite everyone hurting me by their words, This person healed me through words, Guides my directions without being asked, Pampered me like my parents, The person gave me shoulder to cry, A hand that wiped my tears, When all left this person choosed to stay, Smiled and said, I am here for you, Always brought me what I need, Even before I told of myself, This person understood me by my actions, Gave everything and stood beyond words, Made me feel secured, Felt fulfilled by their presence, Happy to be next to them always, A girl who never trusted in anyone, But trusting this person, With heart full of love, Ready ...

Words are something so powerful, it can bring both positive and negative to human life, we would heard our parents telling us how to speak ?, Where to speak ?, When to speak?, Whom to speak?. The real challenge is that knowing how well we use our diction ( choice of words). The moment we speak, it should always have some goodness or meaning to it. By following few tips to speak our words can have self control and self realisation which is much needed while we talk to anyone and this will represent who you are. How to speak?  While you speak to anyone have a very polite words and calm tone. Your words should bring them a pleasant feeling, the moment you speak people should know that you are a good speaker and you know the ethics of speaking. No matter whether they are younger or elder just speak respectful that reflects your character. Where to Speak? You cannot just speak everywhere as you like, you must know your limits to speak and your speech must have some value so ask yourself...

Those untold thoughts of my brain, I wish to say everything that I think, Openly without hiding my emotions, It gives a caution not say because, It turns you to feel absolutely unsafe, When you talk about your emotions, Whenever I talk about what hurts me, Immediately people twist it on me, Calling me sensitive, Yes I am sensitive because I consider, Everyone feelings to be mine, Because I develop not just a connection, But a bond that stays connected by heart, The thoughts I kept on me are, Why don't people think before they speak, What made them so stubborn, On their emotions, Why parents don't pamper their kids, Why they always judge people, Just by their look, Appearance, dress, relationship, Also people judge someone who is not even known by them, Gossiping is always their cup of tea, Entertainment through gossiping other's life, what is so fun to you, Why people are so unkind to their own humans, Thought that are never expressed, Because of judgement, Because of treat...

Suffering is subjective in today's modern society, suffering today is considered to be very very personal. The moment we see someone suffering we tend to avoid our feelings towards their sadness instead we avoid their feelings because we think it is no way affecting our life, which actually made me think this particular question " Where is empathy?." When everyone is looking at their own life and less bothered about other's suffering and their sufferings make me to literally think where are those humans who paid attention to someone else problem are today so heartless and thinks about their own self. Today's lecture of our professor made me to Question where do I stand among the crowd, I am also an apatheic person?, do I listen and respond to someone's suffering, Am I still crying over someone's suffering, Am I listening to them without judgements, have I ever made someone to suffer because of my words, Am I kind enough to everyone even after they hurting ...

Incomplete 99, this book is written by Rakshaya under the pen name Raya, this book Incomplete 99 is the completion of 99 beautiful love poems and untold feelings of one's inner thoughts are brought into life, it consists of 111 pages of impressive poems, the preface will make you know that your just thoughts can be the best poems from your heart, the letter at the end will define the young author and a passionate poet. Let's get into the book. This book Incomplete 99 is the most needed book of this particular generation because it literally make us to realise ones feeling through the lens of poetry, this book made me to step in someones shoe without being in their life and its literally  a book of untold stories, facts and thoughts that reflects the peak of a good emotion.  The book began with the good note of a preface where the author brought in the elements of how our texts, letters and late night talks can turn into beautiful book with alot of poetic lines in it, the momen...

What is madness all about ?  This was actually a question raised by our professor during the lecture and we were also listening to it and there was this part where ma'am told us a incident followed by a question, the incident is that she usually sees a madman who happily enjoys his food near the bridge, besides the dust, pollution and everything he just happily eats and after that he watches people passing by and his usual schedule of his day goes like this and we has peoples have our own work running behind time, work and responsibilities but we don't have the same happiness that the madman has but yeah again she questioned is who is mad whether he is mad or the people who doesn't know how to be happy or how to smile everyday after having all the basic needs and still worry about something that has no use, so who is mad was her question and this thought was ended up like she consider art itself is madness and the way we receive and act on things represent our madness towar...

Valuable gems that I found in the world of stones, Incredible it's a human gem that has so much love, Simplicity is the best adjective to address them, Humble nature that must be adored from them, Non Judgemental beings whom you can always trust,  Uniqueness that can never be replaced, The people who brought colour to dimmed soul, The cheerful smile in morning that reflects positivity, The mannerism melts my heart, Wondering how blessed I am to have them, They are calm loving people, They turns protective when required,  Counters that counters everyone and make them laugh, A people who can never just be explained in words, They are art in the symmetric world, They are polite yet bold, They are  the best gift that I have received in my college life.

We all have this issues of communicating our thoughts and we don't know how to communicate, when to communicate and which language to communicate too, I take this phrase "Know the right Language to communicate" in two ways. One is to know how to communicate to people in basis of language, we tend to use language as the tool to show off that we know several languages and especially in english we tend to use extraordinary vocabulary and speak but we don't know whom we should speak our fawless english, next time when you speak any language make sure the other person should know about the language too. There is quote that says, “If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.” - Nelson Mandela. So follow the quote and speak wisely. The other thing is that it's about love languages, we tend to see our own language of expressing love and we do love by the language that we know and neve...

Standing tall among the crowd, Happily beginning  her life, Experiencing the essence of life, She stood, Besides her empty days, She is not just a women, But a mother who loves beyond limits, A daughter who is pampered by her father, A sister who supported her siblings, A granddaughter who brought joy to her family, A wife who showed her loyalty beyond words, She was never called by her own identity, She was represented as a mom, A sister of someone, A wife of someone, A daughter of someone, But she was never called by her name, Without having someone to depend, She wants to feel her ownself, She is women with her own wings, Wish to fly great heights, She is women with strong heart, Wish to make her own decisions, She is a women with strength and bravery, Wishes to fight her own battles, She wish to stand up, She hates permissions, She hates judgements, She hates controlling, She hates when someone else inferior in her decisions, She hates people calling her weak, She wants freedom...

I don't know how people can change so instantly, today you are important to them and tommorow they just see us as strangers. This is from a personal perspective of my life and this really holds a very strong emotions, we find people losing the bond which is so true intentional and loyal. This is the most turning point that I had in my life and then I learnt to know how to handle such people, sometimes the people who we give our best efforts and affection is the first one to teach us a lesson and the moment I faced a distance from my most favourite person is when I learnt how to keep emotional distance with people, till today I was so suprised about the distance and the change that are and how people can be apart after the loviest memories, still today my question is that what did I do to them and what made them to chose someone else as their friend and the most hurting thing is that they promised to cherish the bond forever but leaving it with fake promises and hopes made me feel s...

If you know, you don't know, this phrase is something that made me feel catchy today when I am on my way to college, I interrupt this phrase in two ways, the first is that If you feel you know everything about a person then you should also know that you don't know about the person too, yes right we might know about the person on their struggles, unhappy days, joyful days, their favourite things and also when they will feel and when they will be happy but we never knew every single path that they travelled to reach this place and their might also things that we never knew and all secrets are not told they are untold at times and that is what the phrase tells, "If you know, you don't know." The other way of interpretation is that we think we know everything in this world and we tend to show off that we know everything but the actual thing is that there is alot thing which we are in process to learn, so next time you say I know everything be more specific of what you...

Today, when just walking around the campus, I found a deer sitting and just wanted to go a little near to see if clearly and I asked my friend to come along with me, the real beauty of nature is not just about what we see from a distance but what we witness when we get close with nature is the real beauty of nature, that is how today it made me feel, at first I just saw one deer sitting and when I went closer I found something that is so beautiful is that a small deer sitting with its mum and I was so happy the moment I saw this little munckin, it was so cute seeing the way they say together sharing love and the way it saw us and actually posing for our photos made me so connect to it and I had no idea to leave, so we thought we could go more closer and see the deer but we had an other suprise there was another deer with big horns sitting on the other side, so if we try to go closer will surely get a hit from his horn and so we just took photo and left the place but still m...

Efforts the most sacred word I would say and this word is most needed in every aspect of life and without efforts there is nothing in life and every part of your life whether it's personal or professional it requires efforts. Efforts are not just things that we put just because it's asked for, it should come naturally from within and when you have the efficiency to effectively put on efforts without any external enforcement then that is what efforts means at real sense, efforts should to stable, symmetric, recurring and valuable always. Any relationship in life is beautiful only when you put on efforts to make it stronger than what actually it is, I find people doesn't know how to make efforts and that is quite surprising because we find a infant of just a month making an effort to crawl and no one thought how to crawl and that shows their efforts towards something, and by this we learn that people can make good efforts only when they are into it. Efforts cannot to taught, ...

Speak up, when you feel something is hurting you or when something doesn't feel okay, do speak up because if u don't speak how you feel later your emotions are bottled up later it can burst out at any time, your emotions are like a timer bomb which keeps ticking it's clock continuously which might lead you to face alot of problems and might also make you feel depressed at times. The moment you feel it's not okay immediately stop them at that moment and say them what you feel is not right about their conversation, today we tend to find people who feel that they cannot address their emotions and if they do so then they will be alone or the relationship that they hold now will currently end up and this insecurities is what makes them to tolerate things, one advise is that if people don't understand your emotions and if they ready to break your relationship just because you pointed out their mistake then the bond is actually a flaw and you were not in the right relation...

Moments to memories  Moments that grew up in my life, Turned to be memories now, Moments of togetherness, Memories now brings remembrance, Moments where we felt happy, Memories that showed presence of joy, Moments kept a distance, Memories brought it closure, Moments of watching moon together, Moon now reflecting those memories, Moments of Walking together, Memories still make me feel their presence, Moments of organising the events, Memories remains but events never feels the same, We had the best bonding moments once, But now they are just memories, Is what my heart never fits to handle, Moments can be beautiful, Memories are sometimes painful, Yet it brings us a little healing effect too, Moments of bonding together, Now cherishing memories, Feels good but lost in moments, Striving hard to bring back those moments, From memories to moments again, Trusting through efforts, I stay, Let the universe turn my memories to moments again, Hoping and Hoping, One day will bring back those...

The chapter undesigned, The chapter that requires a structure, Structure of prosperity, The chapter holds a significance, Ignorance of inevitable energy, Harmonious relationship that grows, Lessons taught by individuals, World of situational circumstances, Entities to be identified, Elimination of subject to be restricted, Growth is stable, Besides the failed process, Destiny that finds, Education that enriches, Experience that innovates, Emotions that pay, Acceptance that teaches, Madness that is recurring, Question that aren't answered, People who pretend, Memories that matters, Pleasure that prevails, Joy that guides, Innocence that hides, The undesigned chapter of life, Where all meet, We design, By experiences, By people, By failures, By disconnection, By solitary, And that builds, Building the chapter a design, But it's undesigned, When it started, Now your design is unique, Tremendous, Admirable, Design and be the designer, Of your life, Be your own artist to your art, B...