Home and House

Home and House has a big difference between them and we all feel the place we stay after our regular duty is home but we don't understand it's house not a home. House becomes home when we feel stressless, completely safe, secured, happy and a loving environment is home and house is just a building that we stay,  which is made of bricks and few people who stay just for staying without any affection. Situation today where we find mostly a house and not home, people who get a home in this generation, remember your damn lucky and today everyone are so busy enough to run behind luxury, status, position, power and something of materialistic property, today I felt writing this because as children we were so happy being in home and now we don't feel the same, at times, yes it's home but most of the times, it's just a house and I felt it yesterday so much, we all find parents who think they hold everything of children and control or suppress their feelings as if they own their whole life and they make conditions, rules and regulations but doesn't understand that when as parents should guide a child and always make them safe to say anything to them openly and more importantly to allow them to be themselves and thats the real challenge for them because they think discipline is being in the applied conditions of the society and completely stick to it and no matter what even if the child is facing something abnormal they should not cry in their own house because it would bring bad luck to the family and to be honest they suppress the feelings which will result in unsaid pains and trauma, home is never a home it becomes so uncomfortable to live when we find the people who we love the most is hurting us the most and blaming us for what we never did and that made me think why don't they understand us. Let's create home not a house and make our loved ones feel safe not judged, let's make our life together both physically and mentally not just being together just by staying next to one other but to know, understand, open up, and feel valued and loved by people next to us, home can be also a place where you can say anything, about anyone without fear or judgement. Meet you in the next blog.

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