which is best to solve a problem argument or communication??

The best way to slove a problem is to communicate about the problem and what are steps can be taken to resolve the issue by communicating and addressing the issue clearly and kindly. Argument on other hand is full of troubles and unwanted feeling that make one to feel bad about yourself and also it's more like a situation where one could never express their opinion. The best is to communicate and be the listener when someone communicates and never argue while you want the problem to resolve, just keep your points and allow them to speak up their points openly and they should never feel judged at any cost while they speak up on their problem and also learn to listen and then speak, which will help you to be away from miscommunication and misunderstanding.

How arguments can be avoided during a problem ? 
This so simple if you are ready to listen to the other person on why they did that particular thing, what made them do the thing, who was the reason for them to act in that way, how the incident have changed them from being humble, listen to all these first and never think that you are right all the time at times you will also be wrong or even misunderstood what had happened and maybe even you have made them to pull out this issue, so listening is important and communicate your answer based the opinions and thoughts shared by them and if you still have some thing that is not clear to you, ask them politely and never raise your voice even though the other does, learn to be a water to the fire, not oil to the fire, I hope you understand, let's learn to be kind, polite, humble to each other and improve ourselves at a better space.

How to communicate our thoughts and opinions without arguing?
This more simple and best way to resolve a problem in just few minutes, when you are going to communicate your opinion never be rude or biased, learn to understand, listen and allow the opposite person to address their opinions and if you feel that it's not how they mean about the problem, just go sit near them and give them a glass of water and slowly tell them about the actual problem and tell them the way they understand, this way you can avoid arguments and resolve a problem easily. 

Arguments creates unnecessary cracks in a bond or a relationship but communication brings the person more closer to you, so chose wisely what you need to apply during a problem, let's see how patience your are in problem when next time you handle a problem with your friend, partner, parents so on.

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