why to blame her always why not to find what's wrong?

The question that had been long in my brain but today's lecture in the last hour is what made me put down my words and try to make people understand that the fault is not about her and it's about the society which normalise the concept for a boy and when it comes to a girl they question and even make statement that kill their heart. I just wanted to question the society on this particular thing that is why do you feel that men has no mistake in them and you never ask them about their mistakes and you keep questioning or judging a women without even knowing about what had happened to her. Please understand the story of both the ends and decide who is right and who is wrong because all people have their own life so never make assumptions instead try to understand the situation of each person before you blame the women without proper evidence. 

Divorce at a general sense is an agreement were each of them decide that being together will create unhealthy relationship and also will lead them to face depression, so they agree to eachother to get separated. And whenever the divorce happen between the husband and wife, the girl is blamed for the divorce and men is always on the safe end, i don't really understand why people are normal to men and they have so much empathy towards them and they care about their feelings has something the most valuable and find faults with something that the women never did and just openly judge's her character, her family and so on and they create stories about her and gossip, I don't really understand and digest this particular thing, people try to understand what life is all about and it's not gender based topic, life is common to all and no one is superior to one other, so stop judgements about women and next time when you find a women then kindly ask her for the reason of her divorce and feel little empathetic about her situation too, if you cannot to that then please don't judge her without knowing her situation.

Doll up and don't dress up, the worst thing that every woman under goes in their life, doll up meaning that the women is always asked to wear sarees, salwar and even wearing saree and salwar also has condition and the dress should never attract the attention of men and every dress you wear should make them feel comfortable to men and the moment you follow all these conditions of dress then your considered to be a perfect women and you are so ethical and when you don't follow the pattern of dress that society guides you then you have to face alot of struggles, judgement and many other issues. Never find faults with dress instead teach the men to see the women with a good intentions and this will make the women to feel comfortable of their dress and feel happy about their life.

My request to all people around, don't judge a women without knowing her situation, her lifestyle, her story, her circumstances and her life, when you understand all these then you will never judge a women instead you will gain alot of respect for her and everyone is equal, please don't force gender into anything, just see everyone as human beings. 

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