Boundaries

Boundaries are more important in life and without them it's full of disappointing situations and boundaries will help you not get hurt and allow you to feel who you are with your life and that matters much. Learning to set boundaries for people around you is very needed skill or quality, I would say. We all have learnt to set boundaries in our life after a lesson that is thought by our most trusted person. Have you ever felt so unwanted in someone's life after making your best efforts in order to make them smile then what is the point in being close to someone, I hope everyone have faced this in your life, I guess. This is just a timely feeling and after a few months you will get quite normal of it, so stop worrying and start setting boundaries to avoid those trauma again. 

I have few tips to build boundaries that will stop you from hurtful situation and also help you to invest better in yourself. First set emotional boundaries when I say this idea it might sound different but necessary to make this change, never call anyone your friend, your bestie instead try calling them classmates, officemates, colleague, etc. Staying professional to people than personal can avoid unnecessary drama, fights and silly stress and help you learn boundaries and to have permanent happiness in your life, next to know the position that you hold in the life of people you are with, ask them questions that can make you understand your position or your priority in their life, ask them which circle that you belong to them in their life ?, Ask them whether they hold a special place if so why?, Ask them frequently about how they feel about you?, don't test their loyalty but learn to understand their intentions for you which will protect you and help you lead a better and best life.  Setting boundaries will give you peace and peace requires patience so don't immediately shut doors, learn to ask and understand people then slowly set boundaries that will give you happiness and joy into your world. 

Boundaries are good because when you set your limits then you will never get upset with people's drama. Learn, understand, analyse then set boundaries. Boundaries are decisions that are to be taken within you and now it's your time to set boundaries and make your life sound as you want and let your life have pure sounds of peace. 

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