Attachment is not a joke

Attachment is not a joke, we all have faced this in our life and many of us are the victims of this silent pain, everytime you attach to someone you either get hurt or played or misused. But I don't mean all attachments but a few attachments that break us, attachment is not a joke because we don't know how people are connected to us, the connection is not always about how you feel so, it's too depth sometimes and you never have idea about how your absence can make them feel low about themselves, be kind to people who are attached to you and always to people who need your presence in their life, I really don't understand why people suddenly change and also hurt the feelings of other person so easily and when they even make a mistake, try to correct them and leaving is never a option, I have seen many people who can't communicate and solve the problem instead they choose to leave, I don't know how people can leave someone and lead a life without them after all those attachments and memories. 

I want people who are leaving should know the situation of people who is waiting for you to return to them and have that same attachment again, the most worstu part of life is being unnoticed or ignored by someone you loved and cared the most, people who are left behind without a proper ending to their attachment are people in trauma, depression and stress today. They ignore everything that comes to them and they don't mingle much to people whom they love and they always want stay away from everything, they are mentally drained, their heart always overthinks, they show empty smiles, they never want to express or even celebrate of their life, they face alot struggle to heal from it and wanted to ignore any human connection and still there is ray of hope to get back to life they lived with them. This is not just in relationship, in fact love failure is better than friendship breakup, bonding of someone special (non blood relation), I don't know why it's hurting so much even after knowing that they don't value us but we do value them so much that is why we get hurt so much. 


People who are waiting for the people who left you behind, learn to move on with life because life never waits for anyone so instead put your efforts on yourself, do alot of selfcare, self motivation, self respect, self control, self encouragement, self love and so on. See they have moved out of your life and they are okay without you and your presence never been their happiness and that the reason they left so understand that you have a life where most of them are waiting for your love and care, give it to them and make them feel loved and if you can heal people who have faced attachment issues and make them feel better and it's more like you healing a part of yourself when you do so. 

Attachment is good but know whom to attach and learn to live alone, anytime anyone can change, never think of something that is left but be happy with what is there with you so your life sounds so beautiful than usual. A kind advise to people who leave, don't leave someone after giving so much love and affection instead try to communicate and solve the problem with communication and one more advice this for people who feel for something who left, never feel for what is left and don't get emotional attached to anyone in your life without knowing about them completely. Meet you in the next blog. 

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