Independent

Independent, this is a very strong word because many of us talk of being independent and we always wanted to stay independent in our life but we also wants someone for few aspects, it can be emotional support, guidance and so on. Being independent is not very easy and complete independence is not possible too. When we want independence of our life then there should be no dependency at all and that's highly impossible in our life because everyone is dependent on someone or other for their life.

Independent is something where you can earn, stand on your own leg, going alone to places by yourself, spending your own money to buy things that you need, chilling out with your life by staying alone, making decisions alone, and few more is what we consider is being independent but all of this requires a dependency too, for example, let's take your earnings salary from a company and they give you money ultimately your are dependent on the work to gain money right, so now it's dependent and not independent. Will give an other example, you are going to buy a dress, now you need to know that the dress you buy was made by someone else and not you so now also you are dependent on someone. So hereafter when you say your independent think about this and realise that you are dependent and never call you as independent, may be you can say your are independent at few terms but still your dependency is not a weakness but a strength that comes from within us to get along with people. Dependent is not something bad it's something good which need an heart to understand. At times maybe dependency is not good.

To add on to the above, dependency is not good sometimes because when we always wanted someone to push us or motivate us or guide us then ofcourse it's difficult because everyone has their own life and situation to handle, at this note it's good to be emotionally independent and sometimes  emotional support is good and mostly being your own therapist is the best way to show your independency.

Independent, the word itself has the word dependent it, so remember that there is no one without being dependent on one other, so dependency is okay but over dependency will bring conflicts. Dependency is human quality, learn to be independent when it requires. Meet you in the next blog.