Thoughts that trigger

Freedom, which today is said to be something that is given by someone with few restrictions and also when someone gives freedom to other then they express them as if that they are freedom fighters and I can't really understand the meaning of freedom, Is it something that is given by one individual to the other ?? I don't think so, freedom is not about you giving them what they need it's about how they like or wish to be. Freedom at a common level is freedom of country which requires freedom fighters and freedom of individuals just requires their self understanding and self control on how they utilise their freedom and no other people has the rights to restrict the freedom of the other.  Freedom today has terms and conditions, we see the people who term freedom to be something that they give with benefits to them, for example we see parents who give the kids to choose their career or the life that comes under the condition of their traditions and family rules and regulations...

What is life all about, we wonder what is life and we question things that happen in our life but we fail to understand what is all about and what is the purpose of living or leading a life. Life is a space between birth and death as we all know but the real meaning of life is when the gap is filled with various elements like moment, memories, values, goals, passion, profession, living a life of peace, happiness, at times with struggles which adds thrill to life and making things that make people around you to feel happy and things that make you happy also matters.  The joy of life, life is a journey of joy and happiness when you understand what life expects from you and when you understand the situation and act accordingly then life is joyful, the moment you take care of yourself and others your life is meaningful, the memories that you make everyday makes life wonderful, the test and trail that you go through makes your life unbeatable, the pretty suprise you receive makes like m...

We all crave for receiving and we all love to give at the same time, correct me if I am wrong. The happiness is more on the receiving end and the person of the giving side is so full of efforts and dedication they give whatever they have and the feeling of giving is something like a blessing and receiving is more than a blessing. I hope you understood the context of what I am referring to giving and receiving and if you don't understand the content, you will get the content at the end of this blog. How happy is Receiving end ?  Receiver of love, care, emotions and so on will have complete happiness and they receive what they want from the giver, the efforts of the giver is in the way they care about the importance of their receiver, they tend to put their heart and soul to just fulfill the needs and wants of the receiver and also ensure that they feel loved, cared, safe and secured by their efforts. All the receiver know about the giver is their love, care and satisfying nature of ...

"I'm fine," how many times we have falsed this answer to people who ask us " how are you ?." Have we ever told that we are not okay, I feel something is not good, i don't feel that I am good, I feel something not going as I planned, I am suffering from trauma, I don't feel like talking, have we ever told the answers which was actually present in our heart but are lips faked the emotions with a smile and a answer that has no truth in it. I really wonder why are we not able to express the truth behind " I'm fine" and say what we are but all the time emotions are hidden and words lie with a fake smile. Art of expression is under a search while we meet people and we are not safe in expressing what we feel in our heart and we tend to hide everything that is not fine to us. Expression of our feelings and thoughts are considered unsafe and make us feel weak about us and we also tend to think whether we will judged or treated with what we say. The ...

Consistency and Priority coincide always because when you have priority over something or someone you consistency work or treat the things with regularity and choose to care of it with consistency. The moment something feels as a part of our priority then we all have this quality of consistency in our actions and we tend to put efforts to maintain that priority of something or someone naturally. This quality of consistency shows others about our priority towards someone or something. Priority can be proved only when you consistently work towards maintaining it as a priority. How important is consistency ? The importance of consistency includes our regularity, non changing nature at a good sense, punctuality, loyalty and trust buliding too. When I mention these qualities they help us to know the worth of consistency and also the values that you will develop by this consistency which makes more sense. The moment your regular towards your work or regular towards your efforts which will ma...

Values of life is most required topic today because as humans we do have alot of values in our life which we usually have it in our day to day life and application of those values matters alot. Values can enrich us from within and make us to shine better in our life. There are alot of values in our life but here I would list the most important values according to me which made me feel valued of my life. The values are honesty, respect, compassion, responsibility and perseverance are values that shaped me and my inner self to be a better human. The first and the foremost quality is honesty, being truthful to yourself and people around you will give alot of good and healthy relationships and also build trust among others which is more important in both personal and professional life. The quality of honesty will enhance your self respect and help you to have strong relationship with others. To improve this quality you should avoid dishonesty and have open communication about your thoughts...

Friendship are the best part of human life. Friendship are moments that we never fail to cherish and recollect, the moment you experience the joy of friendship you can never replace the place or the feeling that friendship gives and every time you fall or you stand too high the only person in the world who will be happier than anyone is your friend who keeps your inner child alive always, memories of friendship is a testament to say aloud to the world. Human life always require the presence of friends in their life who shape, protect and make them feel themselves. I have to make it clear that friendship has various level and each as its own story to tell, we meet people randomly in school, college or neighborhood who keep us warmth, safe and spread colour to our life and other level of friendship is something that we get just in seconds and those friends will always have similar wavelength of us who give us the receiving end that no one can give us, the next level of friendship is frie...

Teaching is an art and I guess all teacher out their are artists if they have the ability to make something that is symmetric to a beautiful art. Teaching is not just a profession it's a service to the nation because a teacher is someone who has the next stage to build someone's life after god and each teacher are the real god who can mold a child from a clay to a human being, most importantly teacher can bring colours to the life of many and can change their future by the art of creating their students life. It's so overwhelming for me to speak of my school days and college days because they are just the best days of life, all my teachers are the reason behind me choosing my career at a better level and developing myself with some better human qualities, they not only educated me academically but also as a girl I am today. Teachers of mine had patience, had smile on their face, encouraged me on our simple talents, motivated us to do things that I felt is difficult and chan...

Smile and Silence, two powerful weapons to keep yourself calm and peaceful in your life. There is quote that says "Silence & Smile are two powerful tools. Smile is the way to solve many problems & Silence is the way to avoid many problems." This quote is very true to lead a life of happiness and peace. The quote express two powerful tools, one is the smile were you can solve many problems that comes in the way of life and the other is the silence were you can avoid many problems that lead us to feel stressed.  Smile, the beauty of human life and not all living beings have the ability to smile. Personally, smile is the best way to express your love, feelings, kindness to your human friends. The moment you smile at others that makes their whole day to feel energetic, refreshing and make their day sound more beautiful than usual. I find people today never smile at others and they just think of something even while walking and most of them are busy that they never smile e...

Stress, the most heard word of this generation. Why stress ? Why not peace ? Are the questions that my brain often ask. I have listened to many people about their stress and whenever I analyse the reason behind their stress is lack of emotional balance and pulling themselves to face stress even with the simplest things. Stress is used as an excuse at times. We all have problem in our life but we must also have the ability to slove a problem. Stress can be ignored when you have the ability to analyse and resolve the problem in earlier stage.  Steps to ignore stress, the first and foremost to know the reason why you meet the stage of stress, when you find the reason then try to resolve it immediately without meeting the next stage. All problems does not require your solution, so try to push yourself away from getting stressed unnecessarily. The moment you feel something is pulling you to feel bad then question yourself whether it's worth to think about, if the answer is no then ignor...

Parenting, I never have experience in this topic but I am the experiment of the topic. Parents doing every single thing for the kid from decision making, choosing their career, buliding their goals, forcing their opinions on them, choosing their life paths, this is not parenting and the actual goal of parenting is guidance and mentor who should teach them to do something and never ever proceed them in your actions just guide through your words and make them to do it by themselves is where the real parenting is fulfilled. Few points that I personally want to change in parenting which will make good change in the life of many children, the first and the foremost when you as a parent should remember that you took a decision to have a kid and it's your responsibility to not force your dreams to that kid and make them to chose their dreams, because every child is born with uniqueness and they want to follow their own dream so never force your dreams on the kid.  The next point to add on...

Trust, the most valuable word in a human life, trust means a strong belief in someone without any confusions, doubts or insecurities. Trust is not built in seconds it takes atleast a year to build and it can only be build by your actions, the way you understand them, listening to them, keeping their secrets forever and never using them at any cost, being kind and mostly staying true to yourself and others is when trust becomes a never-ending promise.  Trust as the ability to connect and share all their weakness and sorrow without being judged or stopped from opening up themselves without doubting you is when full trust is built. I remember a day, when I met a girl in my college and she was sitting all alone in a place and when I tried to communicate to her, I saw her eyes were filled with tears and I just holded her hands and sat next to her, the moment I sat she moved from that place and I just asked her this question, Are you okay?, the moment I asked she said this " i don't...

Actions speak more than words, it's a very famous quote that we hear quite often and there is equivalent phrase in tamil which is actually a Thirukural by Thiruvallur (Solluthal yaarkkum eliya ariyavaam solliya vannam seyal), the quotes may be sound familiar but we never do apply this quote to our life and many of us do apply this quote.  The moment when your words are put to someone it turns to be a hope and those hopes are fulfilled only when you fulfill them as you promised, the words actually has a great power to make one feel happy and sad at the same time. The moment you promised someone that you will be there for them then they are emotional connected to you and wants you on their days of darkness. Words have the power to kill someone mentally and be mindful of your words when you utter them. And when something is told in words it should be fulfilled by your actions and that make you a perfect human beings.  Words and actions should coincide with eachother and words you...

The least expectations of a women are very simple requires a heart to understand their love language and also if you fulfill the expectations of them you will surely find a women of your dreams and most of all women are simple beings and their expectations are simple but the outcome of fulfilling those wishes can real make you own the whole happiness in the world. Women expects, care that comes without being asked for it, love that comes from heart, beautiful compliments that fix their hard days, positive talks that heals them, small suprise visit that make them feel special, flowers that gives them happiness, chocolate during their mood swings which boost them to face the day, tap on shoulder to make them feel energetic, a person to open up their feelings, a little efforts for them make them admire themselves, the excitement in your eyes gives them everything in the world, pure intentions and involvement make them feel like they reach the sky so high, spending quality time together wi...

Tears the overwhelming of emotions where your eyes shed out the water droplets that conveys several untold feelings of the heart and it's the only way to let out the bottled emotions that is stayed over a period of time. There are several stages for tears, each stage where the tears are of different emotional values and these tears express the deep thoughts and feelings. The first stage of tears is crying out when we need food or comfort when we are a kid, which is a tear only to have safety around us and in want of pampering and care from our surroundings. It's quite a form of happy cry, I guess. These moments of  tears are always treasured and enjoy but also it's difficult at times for the mom to understand why the baby is crying. We find a mix of emotions in this stage of tears. The second stage of tear is when we find the difference between the need and the want. As we grow up we want something but parents show us what we need and to accept that we cry at the first plac...

Opinions are the most strongest word in every point of life. Opinions are given from the point of view of the person on their observation or experience, most of all opinions are professional and personal at the same time, we have our own opinions about everything in this world. Let's not just force opinion but just give it as a choice to choose. Personal Opinions, we all have habit of giving suggestions, advises and recommendation of ideas to people we like but those perspective of yours will vary from their perspective, which could bring unnecessary misunderstanding among people that result in arguments and communicational gap. Personal Opinions are more stronger in the sense that it should convince the person your talking to, but also at the same time the opinion of yours may vary from their point of view. Mostly it's good to think twice before you give your opinion to people at personal level, opinion should hold a polite and peaceful tone and not forcing them to understand ...

Past, Present and Future these three terms are so familiar to us and they are used by us in our day to day Life. Past is something that happened and can never be changed, Present which is more beautiful because it's like a empty paper where you can write anything or even change something about yourself and future is something never know probably a suprise place to visit by living a present moment.  Past, we all regret going back to our past and some enjoy the moments of past and some complain about  the past. Why is past different to everyone and why is it not symmetric to all ??. I am also in search of the answer, the moments of our childhood are the best part of past memories but the same is turned to be different for the other person. I have read this essay by Katherine, " Violent Geographies of childhood and home : The child in the closet," where we find the author speaks about the childhood and the trauma that it cost, so even childhood is not a best part to everyone...

Forgive and forget, i don't know how many of you have heard of this phrase and how many of you have applied this in your life, but to be honest I personally have tried applying this phrase in my life and this create us the ability to be kind and happy throughout our life. The moment we all find difficult is to forgive someone for what they did to us and that can also be easy sometimes even to forgive but to forget it's very difficult and to do that you just need a heart that accept the mistakes of others as you accept your mistakes. The most needed thing in your life is to understand the terminology that human make mistakes but don't forgive everything because mistakes are once or twice forgivable not all the time and more than twice if mistakes are made then they should be just ignored and never accept their sorry again which could actually lead you to face mental trauma because sometimes their mistakes which could make you feel stressed or even hurt you in terms of mental...

Expectations, we all have this word everyday in our life which has so much of hope towards someone or something. Expecting something to happen this day and expecting someone to meet us, talk to us, care about us and so on but this is sometimes which will happen and there are also possiblity of not happening too.  Expectations are not always real sometimes they are dreams that are yet to fulfill and it could also be a fantasy to tell. Large expectations that we have on someone or something could destroy our mental peace and make us to overthink about it which could lead us to lose ourselves in the world of expectations.  Avoid over expectation, expectations on yourself is something more special and always fulfilled never hurtful but expectations on someone or something could affect you mentally which later leads lose yourself, the moment you expect your happiness from someone you lose it and the moment you expect care from someone you lose your self care and the moment you expe...

Today I am very excited, do you know why it's because of my secret Santa, who gave me alot memorable gift that can never be told in words, but still I attempt to say about it in my blog today. We had a plan of playing the game "Secret Santa", I hope everyone know what the game is and in case anyone doesn't know about it then do search and try it before Christmas ends, okay coming back to the story, we all chose our christ son/ christ daughter by picking up their names from bowl of different names and planned to buy gifts based on our knowledge about their liking, the moment I took my chirst child, i revealed it to my friends and the my friends had their secret atleast a day and I bought gift for my chirst child and yeah she liked it and I think I have knowledge of choosing gift for my friends.  The next is the gift to me from my chirst mom, my chirst mom is Nihita who actually fooled me by saying her chirst child is in the last row of the right...

Nostalgia is more beautiful because we never thought that our past memories will be this beautiful and we never thought it would take us back to those pleasant moments which make us to feel the same happiness still in terms of memory. I remember the days of playing those kitchen set ( sopusaman), I cook with sand, random leaves, flowers, and sometimes steal few cooking ingredients  from kitchen too, and the next memory is playing the role of teacher and doctor, most funniest play ever and those laughter was very true from heart and the moment literally is something that make us to feel stressless and feel good moments overall. Let's step into few incidents which still make me feel a kid again. The rainy days, when I was sitting inside by house admiring rain with cup of coffee in my hand and that tasty snacks that my mom prepare during rain, I still remember the old house that we were in which had a small garden and during rain the plant will grow bigger than usual and next day afte...

Introduction Healing, the most important step after a storm that sinked your heart to face the next stage of life, people who wanted to heal must comeover everything that they enjoyed as a moment and those moments now are becoming a nightmare to them. Hopes of the person is lost, happiness is lost, trust issues and anxiety is only left for them to face, and why all these occur is because they never expect or set boundaries instead just had pure heart and over giving nature, whom to blame whether the person or the one who had made them to meet this stage. Only solution to all these is to forget and forgive and also learn to have boundaries that are kind.  Healing is a difficult process where everyone meets their lowest low and later part is more beautiful than this difficult phase, when you undergo healing keep yourself away from thoughts of the person, I know it's difficult but still healing requires this factor the most and when you decided to walk away from someone then focus jus...

Introduction   Beauty, the word beauty today has alot of change from ancient to this modern times, beauty today is referred to as something perfect, and it even has conditions and there is term called "Beauty standard" that shows the beauty and the criteria for being beautiful and all these together are only connected to physical beauty were the skin the colour, the dress you wear, the makeup you do, the shape of ur nose and how perfect is your body shape is what determines beauty and that beauty is the most important factor in life according to modern times, and I always question myself how is perfect and beauty are linked together?. The moment you were born, your created by God or nature and the beauty of you reminds inside you that is your character, your kindness, your thoughts and your uniqueness is what is beauty according to me.   Views from my professor  Two souls who shows beauty is not in face and it is heart, the two beautiful soul is Mother Teresa, who had kin...

The Introduction  This is thought that triggered my brain during the lecture in today's class, when our professor raised a question, where are those colourful dresses, decoration and so on, I just was stuck their and kept questioning my brain which gave me various answers.  The Idea Of Our Professor  In the core of idea of lecture, the key most issue of today is we tend to adapt to the colours like black and pale shades, which often is addressed as the colour liked by Zenz and colours like red, yellow and other dark colour are often ignored. Also the her lecture had a point of psychology in colour ( tell me your favourite colour, I will tell you about ur personality) these are the points that is mentioned during our lecture. And one question was why are not liking the colour of pink balloon?  My Idea on the topic The topic had reflected in various ways in my brain and made me recollect the kid in me who enjoyed various shades of colours from the moment I ...

MCC, a place filled with nature and happiness. The moment you reach our college, you will find fresh breeze and greeny shades all over the campus which gives us a moment to relax ourselves from our daily dose of stress and untold worries, those that make us feel better than anything in the world. The long way to walk to classes reminds of the poem " Stopping by the woods on a Snowy evening" by Robert Frost there is one particular line " Miles to go before I sleep, miles to before I sleep" which keeps repeating on my head and that have pushed me to travel both physically and mentally. MCC is so poetic and naturistic that we remind of text of literature while we walk around MCC, I am not exaggerating it's the true sense of happiness that I hold for the campus of MCC.  The rainy days of MCC where we find pure bliss of rain, the greeny trees, the droplet that touches my face. I find rain at MCC is so beautiful where the sounds feel so musical...

 Typically a girl, who is ahead to reach her ultimate goals. A girl who wants to prioritize her dream than the tradition. We read stories of successful women who actually just made her goals and succeeded her dreams, what's so surprising about that is the question, when a man achieves something people call it a success and that success is usually normalized, when the same is done from a woman they see as something a miracle. As a girl, I just want to normalize my success and say she had succeeded her dreams, not that she had achieved something extraordinary, try to equalize the success as a vocabulary and give only a denotative meaning, why it is connotative when it comes to women. When this is happening then the equation is met and the life and success are same despite of gender playing in the role of success, let it be generalized. For example, when I completed my first degree people called it as the greatest achievement and when my brother made it they just told it is a degree a...

Say or Do - Choose wisely!  Say is something easier, Doing is something lazier, I say that I wish to work hard, But I do postponed it to tommorow, I say I will read a book today, But I do use my phone for watching reels, I say I make up self care, I do things that make me to question the word "care", I say I must sleep 8 hours a day, But after all my alarm, my bedsheet pull me to Sleep, I say I want to make good life, I do work against the wish, I say I wish to have healthy food today, I do get tempt by the junk foods, What can I call my says, Is it a want or a need, And what about my do, Are they growing or drowning, What about the well balance logic, How can I bring the balance, The answer is within my thoughts, Silently sitting in a room, I answered, It says, before you say something  Promise yourself that you will make it, Before you proceed your actions, Make sure you do them, Let me, balance SAY  and DO To balance my life  Confessions to accomplishment is the g...

 Let me, Define Emotions! Let me create my own definitions to the emotions of humans based on my own interpretation of emotions that made me to frame these definitions and this may be philosophical but it’s from practical life scenarios that made me to weave this definitions. LOVE:         Love means longing opportunities where venture meets empathy CARE:        Care means consent over ambitious that are recurring and enormous FAITH:           Faith means falling again intentionally in true happiness SAD:      Silence That Adventures Your Determination HAPPINESS:           Happiness means Humble Attitude that is Prevalent, Prosperous, Idiomatic, Nurturing, Emotional, Soulful, and Surprising to Life. FEAR:        Furious Enemy Who Admits Risk to Your Confidence ANGER:           Anger means Alien That Nurtures Your Grudge Emotions th...