Success should be generalized 💯💯

 Typically a girl, who is ahead to reach her ultimate goals. A girl who wants to prioritize her dream than the tradition. We read stories of successful women who actually just made her goals and succeeded her dreams, what's so surprising about that is the question, when a man achieves something people call it a success and that success is usually normalized, when the same is done from a woman they see as something a miracle. As a girl, I just want to normalize my success and say she had succeeded her dreams, not that she had achieved something extraordinary, try to equalize the success as a vocabulary and give only a denotative meaning, why it is connotative when it comes to women. When this is happening then the equation is met and the life and success are same despite of gender playing in the role of success, let it be generalized.

For example, when I completed my first degree people called it as the greatest achievement and when my brother made it they just told it is a degree and where is equality, women are the same as mentioned and men are same as women, when it comes to success just call it the same never hype the word "Success" based on gender. No women's success is less than a men's success and no men's success is lesser than a women's success. Let's take the women cricket team who won a trophy all over India had celebrated it as a festival and yes even the same celebration for men cricket too but when it comes to women they find it even more special and it is something like a star that is fallen from the sky when women are facing their success.

When you want equality, stop celebrating women success as something more special than men and don't degrade yourself by saying as a woman I achieved so much, why is that exaggerated term, just celebrate success not based on gender but based on the level of success and when you stop exaggerating and set up things normal then the real achievement of equality is brought. We find movies celebrating women character and showing that a woman is more stronger than a man in terms of handling pain and life. Yeah, I do agree that a woman is strong but the ultimate goal of mine is to normalize the gender and one is never higher than the other and one is never lower than the other too. When you need equality then never ever say as a woman, I have broken my walls, in fact those walls were never built, it's your illusion and when you want freedom then follow the fact of normalizing things and this will delete the term "gender discrimination".

This is from my point of view on how equality can be gained and I am also here to tell you girls that we are a part of the human world and don't pull yourselves down by saying that as a woman I achieved so much, I understand your hard work behind your success and I also want you to know your worth in this world, so that's the reason I want you to celebrate your success but also want you to normalize your success.