Tears 😭

Tears the overwhelming of emotions where your eyes shed out the water droplets that conveys several untold feelings of the heart and it's the only way to let out the bottled emotions that is stayed over a period of time. There are several stages for tears, each stage where the tears are of different emotional values and these tears express the deep thoughts and feelings.

The first stage of tears is crying out when we need food or comfort when we are a kid, which is a tear only to have safety around us and in want of pampering and care from our surroundings. It's quite a form of happy cry, I guess. These moments of  tears are always treasured and enjoy but also it's difficult at times for the mom to understand why the baby is crying. We find a mix of emotions in this stage of tears.

The second stage of tear is when we find the difference between the need and the want. As we grow up we want something but parents show us what we need and to accept that we cry at the first place and this tear holds the emotions of unacceptance of something that we want the most and this tear makes us to control our wants of the heart to the needs of the brain thats when we get tears that make us realise acceptance in our life.

The third stage of tear is unfulfilled dreams or fulfilled achievements. First will go with the fulfillment of achievements were we find ourselves in tears of happiness during our achievements on our goals and dreams. This tear is full of mixed emotions and happiness. The next is the unfulfilled dreams were we tend to pour out tears because of losing our dream and in order to have them again we first let out the fear of failure through our tears, so that we could be able to workback with full of positivity in us. Both of this emotions are different from eachother but comes at the same stage of life.

The next stage is only for the Women because the separation of us from our family after getting married. We tend feel a deepest emotions which make us to remember every memories of our life in that day which is so emotionally dense and the feeling could never be expressed in words that is the worst stage of tear for Women in their life. This stage of tear is because of separation and the fear of the new life that is yet to begin. That is the only day were the whole relatives and others celebrate but the women and her family has the greatest pain in their but also a hope of good life to their daughter is also there but still this emotions are usually very deeply felt in our heart. 

The next stage of tear is the losing of our loved one, physical or mentally. The moment where tears roll from eyes like a fountain and it will continue for months or years because the separation of a person and the moment you realise they are no more then it's deeply hurtful and sometimes their memories will leave us in tears. I personally feel than death,  separation (breakup in relationship, friendship )hurts the most because the moment you find they are no more we could accept it within a period of time but separation trigger us because whenever we see the person photo or the memories then we tend to ask them why they have to get separated from us but we cannot really accept it till our life ends it stays within us and often recollect them through their memories. This stage of tear is more haunting than anyother stage I guess 

Tears are valuable, expresses untold thoughts and emotions. 

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