Freedom

Freedom, which today is said to be something that is given by someone with few restrictions and also when someone gives freedom to other then they express them as if that they are freedom fighters and I can't really understand the meaning of freedom, Is it something that is given by one individual to the other ?? I don't think so, freedom is not about you giving them what they need it's about how they like or wish to be. Freedom at a common level is freedom of country which requires freedom fighters and freedom of individuals just requires their self understanding and self control on how they utilise their freedom and no other people has the rights to restrict the freedom of the other. 

Freedom today has terms and conditions, we see the people who term freedom to be something that they give with benefits to them, for example we see parents who give the kids to choose their career or the life that comes under the condition of their traditions and family rules and regulations, when a kid dreams of his/her future in a better way from what is commonly in the family, then there is always a advisor who takes this context and say this exact phrase, " what will happen if they know your from this kind of a good family? and what will they talk about us ?. I don't understand when people consider something that's normal to be something that strange to them. I will explain you with a incident, the girl who chose her dream of being in a media side and suddenly people say that the family honor is important and they tell everyone that we give freedom to study but that freedom is misused, i don't really understand what is misused here everything is perfect, she chose her dream, what's wrong ?. And freedom of speech is also restricted, girls should not speak against the family and when they do they are stopped from doing it and they blame with this statement " we give you freedom to study and that why you speak so much, better learn the works of home and be a good homely girl in your life " this statement sting my heart when I heard people saying this to their daughters. People, grow up please, because it's not education that makes the girl superior or arrogant it's about their own characteristics that make them who they are and never ever call the terms and conditions as freedom. I don't say that you should not guide or post your opinion but never control or manipulate your thoughts to the kids just guide them, speak to them, ask them what they need and tell them how they should handle the situation when they have dreams that are not present in family tradition and never make phrase or statement about your thoughts and make them feel that what you believed is right, allow them to find new ideas, new belief system, allow them to explore and find their life the way they want, it's your duty to guide and protect and not live their life. 

Freedom is a strong word and no one as a individual can take others freedom as granted and all must know your life is your and their life is theirs and never judge or comments, give them the peace of living with their freedom and kind note never misuse your freedom and make sure your freedom should never disturb or create any form of unhappiness in the life of others. Live with freedom and guide your thoughts mindfully. Make sure next time freedom is exactly meant as what it is. 

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