Healing 🩹✨

Introduction

Healing, the most important step after a storm that sinked your heart to face the next stage of life, people who wanted to heal must comeover everything that they enjoyed as a moment and those moments now are becoming a nightmare to them. Hopes of the person is lost, happiness is lost, trust issues and anxiety is only left for them to face, and why all these occur is because they never expect or set boundaries instead just had pure heart and over giving nature, whom to blame whether the person or the one who had made them to meet this stage. Only solution to all these is to forget and forgive and also learn to have boundaries that are kind. 

Healing is a difficult process where everyone meets their lowest low and later part is more beautiful than this difficult phase, when you undergo healing keep yourself away from thoughts of the person, I know it's difficult but still healing requires this factor the most and when you decided to walk away from someone then focus just on peace and silence rather than fighting and arguing but as we all know sometimes silent is the best weapon to people who don't value your words and letting out is good and know whom to let out your worries and at this phase I know you will never find anyone instead you weep to yourself,  all problems requires a end and every problem just requires a peaceful ending, if you want peaceful ending then chose healing and silence. 

Steps to heal

Steps to heal, the first and the foremost step to heal is to walk away were you feel discomfort, second is to meditate and third is to mingle with nature and fourth is to hear to music that heal, fifth is to talk to people who gives you positivity, sixth is to put your energy on something you love to do, finally the most important thing to do is to trust the process of healing and trust in yourself that you can overcome them. 

Kind Advise to people 

Advise to people who pushed them for healing, I mean the reason for someone to face the phase of healing. People, you might easily hurt them and push them away but you were the ones who made them believe in people but when try to push them away then why did you give them fake hopes, unfilled promises, memories that were so fake and how did you think that they can overcome all these and I request people to be kind, loving and loyal to people you love, never be the reason someone to skip a meal, to lose a day or a year, to hate themselves, to ignore the beautiful moments and never ever be the reason for them to lose trust in human connection. People, try to act kind and positive to your fellow human beings, everyone is fighting their own battle so if you cannot give someone something then never give them hope that you can do something for them, it hurts and takes a long time to heal.

Conclusion 

To conclude, Healing requires alot time but the results are enormous, so trust the process of healing and to all those who healed from struggles continue to set healthy boundaries to protect your peace forever and budding healer you are almost there come on you have a long way to go and that way will bring you alot of happiness.

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