Anger as a positive emotion

Anger as a positive emotion, we all feel anger to be something negative and whenever someone gets angry we call them short temper, arrogant and so on but we fail to find the reason behind their anger. 

Today in our class our professor told us this beautiful phrase anger is a positive emotion and she quoted it with an phrase which is told by an other writer, anger is positive emotion but depends on where, whom and words that we use is what makes your anger to be positive and this literally changed my thought about anger.

The first and foremost is to know to whom you should show your anger, the person you show your anger must know you well and understand that your anger has some reason and when they understand you completely without judging you by your anger, then it's good to show your anger and they will help you to feel better from what had made you angry. People should know how to convince you when you are angry those people are yours and you can show your feelings openly.

The second is to know where you should show you anger and where you should avoid your anger, places were you find it's good to show where you have people who will understand the reason for your anger then you can obviously show it up but when you feel it's not worth getting anger or your anger will be used to show your emotional instability then do avoid your anger at that point to avoid unnecessary problem.

Thirdly, words that you use when you are angry, be very clear about your choice of words, think ten times before you utter a word which will save you from being unkind and maybe using harsh words can give you peace at that moment but you will regret and feel guilty forever about your words and also the person who is the receiver of your words will also feel bad or even people around you will create stories and gossip about it to others, so let's not give them chance to judge us and let's know the importance of words even when we are angry.

When all the condition is meet then your anger is positive but people who can tolerate your anger in any situation then you guys are peace builder, let's be kind and not get angry over small things which can make you regret it for life time. Meet you in the next blog 

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