Posts

The Art of missing

The Art of missing  Thoughts of people are always treasured, They make us recollect them quite often, Silenced but their thoughts I stood by, Making pictures with their memories, Missing them though they are away, Feeling like something is missed out, Everytime Everything reminds them, Call me fool I never care, But stuck not with the person but life, Missing those moments of togetherness, Bond that is beyond love, Mesmerizing by just the truth of missing, Wanting to go back and get them with me, Silencing my emotions I stood back, Thinking that one day they will come back, I will hold them tight, Never leave them, Missing is an art, And I have been a artist for so long, The songs that played in me reminds them, Probably the person is soon coming back, To rebond and forever to stay, Missing their presence, Wanting to hold on to cherished dream, Waiting patiently to end the missing, But when you have the right one, Missing is a blessing, Waiting is worthy, Will surely one day stop m...

Independent

Independent, this is a very strong word because many of us talk of being independent and we always wanted to stay independent in our life but we also wants someone for few aspects, it can be emotional support, guidance and so on. Being independent is not very easy and complete independence is not possible too. When we want independence of our life then there should be no dependency at all and that's highly impossible in our life because everyone is dependent on someone or other for their life. Independent is something where you can earn, stand on your own leg, going alone to places by yourself, spending your own money to buy things that you need, chilling out with your life by staying alone, making decisions alone, and few more is what we consider is being independent but all of this requires a dependency too, for example, let's take your earnings salary from a company and they give you money ultimately your are dependent on the work to gain money right, so now it's depende...

Don't replace instead repair

Never replace instead repair, this topic is in context to human connection not things. We all should learn to find solution to solve and rebond to the person instead of replacing them with an other person is the context today. What will be the consequences of replacing and how effective is to repair and reunite is what makes this chapter interesting. Replacing is easy and effortless but repair takes time and also require good efforts, we all find it difficult to fix things and make it even more beautiful but we find something new which doesn't have any connection to us.  What will be the consequences of replacing?? We all might find a person who can emotional support us or act like supporting us but we don't know their intentions of their support, I don't say everyone whom you replace are bad intentioned but replacing a person who doesn't know anything about you but the person just can be a support to your hard days and sometimes you will even face people who can use yo...

Habits that brings change to life

Habits that brings change to life and those habits will help you to stay healthy, calm, energetic and also make the better version of your which you have never thought. This will bring a wide change in your life and also help you build better each day and grow both personally and professionally. The first and foremost is to wake up early in the morning, when I say this you would have thought me as a boomer but it's okay because I too felt the same when I heard it for the first time from my parents but now waking up early gave me energy that brings change to my daily routine, when you wake up in the morning and see the sun rise you will feel a good positive start to the day. The sun seems to feel like someone is boosting energy to survive the whole day. So try to wake up early in the morning and see the change by yourself. The next habit to include is that meditation which will calm your mind and soul, helps in fresh start to the morning and help you stay away from stress, anger and...

Taste your words before you spill them out

Image
Taste your words before you spill them out because when you once utter a word to someone and that cannot be taken back, words can be hurtful and your words can repeat in someone's brain for several times, all these quotes are heard but never practiced, I wish that people could practice this so that no one will face any sort of depression in their life.  Why words hurt people so much because a word can be just a word till the moment it's in your brain but the moment you say it then it's a confession of your emotions, learn to think twice before you speak or confession something to someone because your words can create stress, hurt and lead to depression which will create a gap between you the person. Learn to speak of kindness and the way you speak should be a healing to someone and never push them to stress. And I have seen people who speak kind to the unkind ones which made me learn their kindness and I genuinely felt it's good to speak of goodness so that we are no lo...

Attachment is not a joke

Attachment is not a joke, we all have faced this in our life and many of us are the victims of this silent pain, everytime you attach to someone you either get hurt or played or misused. But I don't mean all attachments but a few attachments that break us, attachment is not a joke because we don't know how people are connected to us, the connection is not always about how you feel so, it's too depth sometimes and you never have idea about how your absence can make them feel low about themselves, be kind to people who are attached to you and always to people who need your presence in their life, I really don't understand why people suddenly change and also hurt the feelings of other person so easily and when they even make a mistake, try to correct them and leaving is never a option, I have seen many people who can't communicate and solve the problem instead they choose to leave, I don't know how people can leave someone and lead a life without them after all tho...

Who am I without this worldly things?

Who am I without this worldly things ?? I would say that you will meet a new version of yourself when you are away from worldly things, worldly happiness, worldly pleasure, world and it's conditional life is more like adaptation of your true self to something that requires few changes and few hidden things, so that the world see you as a person of the world orelse you will be a species from an other world,  I would say being you in this world is impossible because the moment you live the way you want then people keep unnecessary judgements and also they make you feel something inappropriate  about yourself later you yourself wanted to change and adapt to the world and it's conditions. Today we find people protesting for something that is a basic need and also we find people craving for happiness in their life is all because they have lost their identity in choosing what the world wants. ( World here is personified, not the actual world but people who created rules and regulati...